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Solo-ish

A podcast from The Washington Post about the joys and conundrums of being single – everything from dating to traveling to making a life on your own. Host Lisa Bonos takes on these topics and more in conversations with experts – and sometimes friends – about being unmarried, but far from alone. [This podcast is no longer releasing new episodes.]

Episodes

Summer break

We're taking a break for the summer. We'll be back soon with more stories from the Solo-ish life.

Jun 22, 20163 min

How to plan a bachelorette party

How do you plan a bachelorette party while keeping your sanity and your savings intact? It's not easy, but it is possible. Lisa Bonos gets tips from Veronica Toney, a Solo-ish editor and frequent wedding guest, and professional bridesmaid Jen Glantz.

Jun 08, 201623 min

The invention of dating

If dating feels like hard work, that's because it is. Lisa Bonos chats Moira Weigel talk about love is related to the economy, and other tidbits from her book "Labor of Love: The Invention of Dating."

May 26, 201619 min

'I would like to court you in friendship'

Ann Friedman and Aminatou Sow join Lisa Bonos to chat about the pleasure and pain of female friendship -- from courting new friends to navigating distance among old ones. Plus a conversation with one of Lisa's longtime friends about how they first met.

May 12, 201626 min

How to break up

What was your worst breakup? And what makes a good one? Lisa Bonos chats with two 20-somethings about how their past breakups have influenced those that have come next.

Apr 28, 201618 min

We're better as exes. Divorce done well.

Advice columnist Carolyn Hax and cartoonist Nick Galifinakis are ex-spouses who work together every day and manage to enjoy it. Lisa Bonos chats with them and with Wendy Paris, about how to survive a divorce.

Apr 13, 201623 min

The political power of unmarried women

"These women decide elections," says Page Gardner, founder of the Voter Participation Center. She and journalist Rebecca Traister talk with Lisa Bonos about how candidates are appealing to -- or repelling -- unmarried women.

Mar 30, 201631 min

Solo in the city

Want to try a new bar or restaurant -- or check out a museum exhibit -- but can't find anyone to come along? Go solo. Tips for solo dining, drinking and other outings from Lisa Bonos's Washington Post colleagues.

Mar 17, 201631 min

Testing yourself for marriage

Jill Andres and Brook Silva-Braga dated for years, but were they ready to marry? They put themselves through 40 challenges to find out. Hear about their adventure, plus tips from dating coach Neely Steinberg.

Mar 03, 201627 min

Bar-hopping with a professional wingman

Thomas Edwards gives tips to Lisa Bonos and two colleagues -- Veronica Toney and Lavanya Ramanathan -- on how to approach strangers in a bar, show interest and eventually exchange digits.

Feb 18, 201627 min

How to rebound from an awful first date

Bad first dates usually don't result in a second try. But this couple -- Ashraf Bouajina and Max Ashwill -- managed to turn things around. Hear all about why Ashraf gave Max a second chance.

Feb 04, 201625 min

Matchmaker, make me a match

What does it take for a blind date to lead to love? Shared values or a similar outlook on life need to be there, say Christina Antoniades, who sets couples up for The Washington Post's Date Lab, Paul Carrick Brunson, a professional matchmaker.

Jan 20, 201628 min

Love in the office

Lisa Bonos chats with a Washington Post couple who met in the newsroom 20 years ago and are still together. And work advice columnist Karla Miller gives some tips to those considering an office romance.

Jan 06, 201622 min

Putting a ring -- or a dog tag -- on it

Lisa Bonos chats with novelist J. Courtney Sullivan about the single woman who sold Americans on the idea that a diamond is forever; Jon Mervis discusses what it's like to sell engagement rings; and we meet a couple who got engaged without a ring.

Dec 23, 201532 min

She's a foodie. He's a fast-food nut.

When you have opposite tastes in food, where do you go on dates? Lisa Bonos chats with Adam Chandler and Emily Saladino about their fast-food romance.

Dec 10, 201515 min

How my parents got together

Lisa Bonos thought she knew all about how her parents met and got together in the 1970s. Decades later, she gets the full story.

Nov 24, 201529 min

"There was nobody to talk to. Nobody."

Can an extrovert handle nine weeks of solitude? Lisa Bonos chats with Philippa Hughes about why she went to Italy to work on a book. Plus, comments from Fenton Johnson and the role of solitude in a writer's life.

Nov 12, 201525 min

The cooking date

When's the right time to invite a new love interest over for dinner?

Oct 28, 201528 min

Putting your fertility on ice

Who decides to freeze their eggs – and why? Lisa Bonos asks a colleague and a fertility doctor, who’ve both frozen eggs, about the experience.

Oct 14, 201534 min

Congrats, you're a match!

First dates are easy. But how long do you stick around? Solo-ish editor Lisa Bonos explores.

Sep 17, 201523 min
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