Rope isn't just about knots—it's about connection, emotion, and the art of shared vulnerability. In this episode, Davide journey of finding purpose in rope, balancing aesthetics and safety, and embracing growth through introspection Davide, also known as Laodai, is a professional rigger and shibari artist with years of experience teaching, performing, and connecting through rope. He founded Studio K, the first shibari studio in Shanghai, and created Mainland China’s first public rope party. Thro...
Dec 28, 2024•40 min•Ep. 56
"Every good story starts with a hardware store." Sparks shares his journey into shibari, from learning rope with his wife to studying under Kanna. He explores communication, consent, emotional connection, and creative sadism, offering personal insights into building meaningful rope experiences. Sparks began tying in early 2015. Learning quickly both locally and travelling interstate at every chance to further knowledge. Sparks began an educational role in 2016 and not long there after, began tea...
Dec 27, 2024•54 min•Ep. 55
Lavender emphasizes breaking down barriers by sharing knowledge and creating inclusive spaces. She explores her journey into kink and rope, the value of emotional connection, dismantling gatekeeping, and building community through intentionality and shared experiences. Lavender is a rope bottom and PC gaming enjoyer. Other than rope she enjoys wax/knife play, whips and electricity. She continuously strives to connect with LGBTQA+ communities of color in their rope journey and doing knowledge/ski...
Dec 03, 2024•19 min•Ep. 54
Gandalf discusses their unique approach to rope, exploring themes of memory, vulnerability, and connection. They share insights on teaching, the emotional impact of touch, and creating spaces for authenticity and intentionality in rope practice. Gandalf (they/them) is a shibari artist and educator based in Shanghai. They are the founder and organiser of Embodied Flow and the conductor of a local Playback Theatre group. Formerly a cognitive scientist, Gandalf is interested in exploring various fo...
Nov 18, 2024•57 min•Ep. 53
"Rope should be taught as a series of decisions rather than patterns," Hitchin Kitten suggests, emphasizing dynamic choices over rigid forms. In this episode, they discuss playful, movement-centered rope, grounding in intuition, and fostering inclusive, identity-based communities. HitchinKitten (she/they/it) is a kitten-ish rope witch and sadomasochistic switch that likes her kink to be whimsically delicious. Her kink is connection, and rope is the path she takes to get there. Her approach to ro...
Nov 08, 2024•41 min•Ep. 52
Devon and Cass discuss their evolving experiences with rope bondage, chronic pain, and navigating personal trauma. They explore communication, consent, and collaboration in kink, offering insights into how pain and power dynamics shape their connection both on and off stage. Dual Demons are two non-binary, trauma-informed BDSM + kink educators and performers specializing in rope suspension and the development of Queer, anarchist spaces. Devon (they/them) and Cass (they/she) are two silly little ...
Oct 21, 2024•42 min•Ep. 51
"I can't wait to learn what my rope style is!" Axel discusses her journey into kink, navigating whitewashed kink spaces, the emotional depth of rope bottoming, and the personal growth she’s experienced through self-tying and exploring the intersection of mental health and kink. Axel’s pleasure is through pain. As a masochist, Axel joined the kink community when she began exploring different methods of energy release. Through Axel’s journey, she has gained a thriving passion for helping others fi...
Oct 02, 2024•43 min•Ep. 50
Good relationships are all about connection. Wren and Yana dive into the nuances of fulfilling intimacy, consent, and navigating dynamics in relationships. They discuss overcoming personal hang-ups, redefining pleasure, and the importance of open communication in both kink and vanilla spaces. Yana Tallon-Hicks , LMFT (she/her), is a relationships therapist and sexuality writer + educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work has specialized in queer, kinky, and non-monogamous relationships f...
Sep 23, 2024•41 min•Ep. 49
No one's ever died from futo! Shay Tiziano discusses transitioning from LARPing to kink, exhibitionism, incorporating camp into performances, and the importance of active bottoming. They also cover event production, teaching rope, and their upcoming book. Shay Tiziano (she/her or they/them) is a dynamic presenter and self-suspender renowned for their innovative, acrobatic bondage performances and friendly, attainable, and risk-mitigation-focused approach to kink education. She is the author of T...
Sep 18, 2024•59 min•Ep. 48
Wren and LOOM delve into the complexities of Shibari, exploring Loom's evolution from technical proficiency to prioritizing art and meaningful connection. They discuss the ego death brought on by COVID, and the challenge of balancing artistry with authentic human interaction in rope practice. LOOM (he/him) is a rope artist, photographer, and educator based in the Pacific Northwest. For him, rope is more than a passion project; it's an all-consuming obsession rooted in artistic expression, intima...
Sep 02, 2024•35 min•Ep. 47
Let’s learn the rules, then create ties. Beatrice shares her journey from shibari educator to relationship coach, exploring how to navigate relationship dynamics, challenge traditional roles, and harness the transformative power of open communication in kink and beyond. Red Lily (she/her) is an Italian queer feminist, intimacy and relational coach based in Copenhagen. As norm critical educator, with 15 years of experiences of performing and teaching shibari and kink, she’s creating safe(r) space...
Aug 25, 2024•46 min•Ep. 46
According to Oji Pan, it’s essential to give people the space to authentically manifest their values. In this episode, Oji Pan discusses the art of rope, its history, and the challenges men face in expressing vulnerability. He also highlights the Devil Mask Society’s inclusive approach, exploring themes of shame, ego, and deeper connections through rope practice. Oji Pan (he/him) has been involved in kink and BDSM, in one form or another, for over adecade. He has rigorously been studying rope fo...
Aug 16, 2024•44 min•Ep. 45
One of Ivy's mission is to give people the freedom to find out who they are in rope. Join Ivy Limieux as they share their kink journey, explore community inclusivity, and discuss challenges faced by marginalized groups in alternative spaces. Gain insights on creating welcoming environments and fostering genuine connections. Ivy Limieux is a sWitchy Sadistic VoxFox, joining the rope community in 2016. She believes that rope is as fluid and adaptable as the people who choose to participate, and th...
Jul 19, 2024•52 min•Ep. 44
Leading questions prime the person being asked to agree! Melissa chats about active bottoming, the importance of reflection and feedback for rope bottoms, and the challenges in class settings. She also talks about the opening of Devil Mask Studio in Los Angeles. GoodMostTimes AKA Melissa (she/her) started her rope education, as a bottom, in early 2012. She has since been expanding her knowledge as a switch and loves to share new techniques from both sides of a tie. Fortunate to be based in Los A...
Jul 10, 2024•54 min•Ep. 43
Emphasizing authenticity over universal appeal, Fox and Mya aim to attract like-minded listeners who appreciate their genuine approach. Together, they share their rope journey with us, discussing the challenges of producing their long-running podcast, the balance between creativity and consistency, and their insights on integrating values and philosophy into their practice. Fox (a rope top) and Mya (a rope bottom) have been rope partners for 8 years, and since 2017 have explored their passion fo...
Jul 02, 2024•52 min•Ep. 42
It's actually a crossing knot, not a Munter hitch! In this episode, Natalie Rose discusses their rope journey, the dynamics of being in a property-owner relationship, and the significance of communication and platonic kink in their practice. Natalie Rose (they/she) is a lifestyle coach and kink educator dedicated to fostering a welcoming and inclusive environment for individuals to explore their interests in rope bondage. Their practice centers around platonic kink, with a particular passion for...
Jun 21, 2024•47 min•Ep. 41
Colette Pervette's mission is to eradicate shame and teach people how to play again. In this episode, they dive into kink, ego dissolution, and intentional play, highlighting negotiation tips and the importance of curiosity in BDSM. Colette is a professional Dominatrix of 18+ years. In her journey as a Domme, she spent the first decade of her career going deep into the art and practice of BDSM. Then she spent the last 8 years going inward and contemplating the theory behind the practice of BDSM ...
Jun 17, 2024•40 min•Ep. 40
Embrace the unexpected with Shannonagannery! Host Wicked Wren explores Shannon's 'yes, and' approach to life, discussing authenticity, joy, and creativity in kink. In this episode, the playful integration of clowning, negotiation, and the pursuit of genuine happiness are highlighted. Shannonagannery is a Portland-based, rope-loving clown human. Active in public kink community since 2019, she has be seen clowning in and out of rope at such events as the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, KinkFest, Fol...
Jun 03, 2024•46 min•Ep. 39
Jake and Laced, also known as Nawa Musubi, discuss their approach to shibari and teaching philosophies. They emphasize the importance of communication and adaptation in their practice, highlighting personal growth, inclusivity, and the evolving recognition of models in the community. Nawa Musubi is the partnership of Jake and Laced. It was formed in April 2018 when Jake was officially certified by Hajime Kinoko as an instructor of his style of shibari. Jake and Laced are passionate rope educator...
May 26, 2024•47 min•Ep. 38
Join Vex Murmur as they share their journey from Mormon upbringing to rope bondage, highlighting artistic expression, technical challenges, and self-care in self-suspension. They stress self-awareness, communication, and starting with floor work for safe exploration, promoting individualized approaches. Vex is a self-suspension rope enthusiast, where they use the forms of their body as a medium of expression with rope and self-portraits. They pull from interests in suffering and how to suffer be...
May 17, 2024•50 min•Ep. 37
Mx Bliss explores their switch identity, the dynamics of rope play, and the challenges of navigating legal gray areas. The conversation emphasizes diversity, embracing fears, and advocating for mainstream acceptance. They also share insights on performance, failure, and community inclusivity. MxBliss (she/they) is a gleeful sadist, sensation empath, consent enthusiast, rope switch, self-suspender, and quinkster (queer kinkster). As an older, queer, femme-presenting POC who didn’t initially feel ...
May 13, 2024•38 min•Ep. 36
Mistress Gemma Li navigates a labyrinth of topics, from her disdain for celery to the depths of BDSM psychology. Explore her journey from academia to domination, as she emphasizes communication and hands-on experience in the evolving realm of kink education. Mistress Gemma Li is an international Dominatrix based in Denver, CO. She enjoys bondage in both the figurative and literal sense as a psychological tool in D/s. Instagram: @mistressgemmali Explore 800+ high-quality rope bondage tutorials ta...
May 06, 2024•42 min•Ep. 35
Lu discusses their journey in the kink community, emphasizing the importance of communication and safety. They explore topics like social media, parenting, and community involvement, offering insights into their experiences and reflections on navigating the kink scene. Bimbo Daddy Lu has been an involved community member in the greater Los Angeles area since 2017. Dabbling in everything from bottoming, topping, sex work and adult entertainment production. They strive to make space for marginaliz...
Apr 29, 2024•43 min•Ep. 34
Kata discusses their journey into shibari, blending spirituality and bodywork. They reflect on fostering community, challenges of organizing workshops, and the intersection of rope bondage with Tantra. Kata emphasizes mindfulness, presence, and ongoing self-improvement. Kata (he/she/they) has been touching and trying to understand and learn "all" about touch their whole life. They are a touch professional, genderfluid (rope)switch, bodyworker, explorer, learner and forever evolving in this (most...
Apr 26, 2024•43 min•Ep. 33
Liquid's advice: Respect your own boundaries. Their exploration of their BDSM journey emphasizes the pillars of education, consent, and accountability, advocating for inclusivity and understanding through personal anecdotes within the community. Mari or Liquid (she/they/them) as they are known in the BDSM community, served as the chapter’s VP. They also taught classes while lending their years of experience and community service by shining a light on the chapter to the greater BDSM/ Fetish/Leath...
Apr 06, 2024•47 min•Ep. 32
Malachi, a switch in kink practices, emphasizes safety, negotiation, and self-advocacy in BDSM. They discuss rope experiences, nerve checks, and body perception, highlighting the emotional significance of self-suspension and the role of photography in self-discovery. Malachi (they/them) is a trans-identified, kinky, queer, polyamorous writer, and educator with a bachelor’s degree in traditional mathematics. Their literary work has been published in several journals including The Rhapsodist and G...
Mar 28, 2024•35 min•Ep. 31
Massokissed discusses veganism, art, and rope bondage. Through photography and rope, she explores creativity, challenges, and emotional processing, aiming to create safe spaces for models and liberate sexuality. Massokissed (she/they) is a rope switch, photographer and model in the Pacific Northwest and has been doing rope for 5 years. She focuses on conquering challenging shapes, aesthetically decorative rope, and processing emotion through discomfort. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masso...
Mar 11, 2024•32 min•Ep. 30
Heathawk shares their journey from discovering kink in Tucson to embracing vulnerability and pushing boundaries through rope bondage. Heathawk is a rope bottom from the DC Maryland Virginia area and has been practicing bottoming in rope for over 11 years. Known for their intricate ties, Heathawk has also performed at events such as Nuit de Chords and the Folsom Street Fair. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Heathawk13 Twitter: https://twitter.com/heathawk13 Explore 800+ high-quality rope bond...
Feb 25, 2024•37 min•Ep. 29
Barbieland is like the dungeon where women are in charge. Explore the life of a pro domme with Mistress Hera as she discusses the importance of consent, vetting clients and her own unique experiences. Mistress Hera (she/her) is a 28 year old Professional Dominatrix born and raised in Ft. Lauderdale, FL that has been practicing sex work for 10 years and opened her independent dungeon in Pittsburgh, PA in 2015. With a background in Anthropolgy and Global Gender studies at university, Mistress Hera...
Feb 11, 2024•30 min•Ep. 28
subRobert explores online presence, BDSM communication, and integrating kink into daily life. Sharing journey insights and the impact of Mistress Neena, the lively discussion offers a glimpse into the world of BDSM and subRobert's unique experiences. subRobert (he/him) is based in the Tri-State area and has been in the kink scene for 9 years. He identifies as heteroflexible, is a service sub at heart, and is a budding content creator. With minimal limits, the kink community has profoundly impact...
Jan 29, 2024•37 min•Ep. 27
