Shattered and Shamed with Laney and Brian

Laney and Brian

Society & Culture

Relationships

Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery

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Episode 6: Dina Hijazi – Therapeutic Disclosure

Summary: Dina talks about therapeutic disclosure of betrayal. She talks through the different steps of therapeutic disclosure and the difference between therapeutic disclosure and self-led disclosures. Links: https://d2counseling.com/ Disclosure Booklet A ( https://a.co/d/fsowyYi ) Disclosure Booklet B ( https://a.co/d/8A12JtA )

May 18, 2025•35 min•Ep. 6

Episode 5: Daniel Gowan – Why Do Men Cheat?

Summary: Daniel talks about different factors that lead men to cheat, including lack of healthy boundaries, unhealthy coping mechanisms, unhealthy relationships with self, along with how to shift out of those patterns. Links: https://d2counseling.com/

May 18, 2025•38 min•Ep. 5

Episode 4: Maddie Corman – Creating “Accidentally Brave”

Summary: Maddie talks about creating her play “Accidentally Brave” and the process that led to the creation of the movie, along with what she learned from the process. Links: https://www.maddiecorman.com/accidentally-brave http://accidentallybrave.com/ Accidentally Brave Movie ( https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0DTSKRB2Z/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r ) Accidentally Brave Audible ( https://a.co/d/2AIF4Cq )...

May 18, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 4

Episode 3: Dan Drake - Using the Intimacy Pyramid in Individual and Relational Recovery

Summary: Dan Drake talks about how the steps of the Intimacy Pyramid outline the process of recovering from betrayal in primary relationships. He explains that connection is built on honesty, which creates safety, building the potential for trust, which allows for vulnerability, leading to intimacy. Links: https://banyantherapygroup.com/ https://kintsugirecoverypartners.com/ Books: Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection That Stands the Test of Time https://a.co/d/6Wvd5fc Full Disclosure: ...

May 18, 2025•43 min•Ep. 3

Episode 2: Carol Sheets – Building Empathy in the Process of Repairing Trust

Summary: Carol the Coach talks with us about ERCEM (Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model), which she developed to help couples heal from betrayal. She explains the model and the importance of empathy in relational recovery from betrayal. Links: https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/ https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/certification https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/ercem-specialist Books: Help.Her.Heal ( https://a.co/d/8UokOh4 ) Help.Them.Heal ( https://a.co/d/hSDFfT9 ) Unleashing Your Power ...

May 18, 2025•39 min•Ep. 2

Episode 1: An introduction to Laney and Brian, the hosts of Shattered & Shamed.

Summary: Laney and Brian introduce each other and explain why they started this podcast and what you can expect from the episodes. Links: https://northstarrc.com/ https://knowltoncounseling.com/ https://relationshipsmatter.com/ https://www.connectedrecoverytraining.com/ Books: Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery ( https://a.co/d/3wqfWbP ) Disclosure Booklet A ( https://a.co/d/fsowyYi ) Disclosure Booklet B ( https://a...

May 18, 2025•21 min•Ep. 1

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