Mother's Day Leveling Up

Mother's Day Leveling Up 💥becoming the mom they deserve💥 It hit me yesterday afternoon as our day took new turns and twists that the old was gone. No more dad chasing around kids to deliver breakfast in bed, driving us on an adventure making sure the day stayed on course....and you know what? It felt good. It felt good to accept whatever came our way. For me to release all expectations and simply enjoy each moment that came to my kids and I. 💥IN THIS EPISODE💥 Our survivor levels up internally with her mental step from being a really good mom to transforming into a really authentic mom who took a hard look at how the abuse was harming her children. In this Mother's Day episode Nita shatters the notion that "staying for the children" was helping her kids. With children suffering from; self loathing, self harm, suicidal ideology, rage, learned abuse behaviours, external vs internal worth, Nita realized that staying in abuse for them was only training them to hate themselves. Exactly as she hated herself and cycled invisibly with her internal worth. Her staying was only teaching them to become victims and/or abusers. Leveling up was the only path for this courageous mom of 5.