If you're meeting men and getting some good experiences, yet, you feel as though something is missing or not connecting during the courtship process, and your relationships with men aren’t leading to commitment and you don’t know why then this episode is for you. Not meeting men who are serious about commitment or you may thinking there’s something wrong with you and you aren’t good enough for a man to commit, will only cause you to avoid relationships and moving your love life forward or it may...
Dec 23, 2022•31 min•Season 5Ep. 63
One mistake you may be making that you need to avoid is treating the first or second conversation like a job interview. You may be doing this unintentionally, but pay attention to the flow of conversations whether online or offline and if you’re communicating with the intention to quickly eliminate a man as not a match. When you first meet a man and you are asking questions to quickly qualify him according to your current deal breakers or a list you’ve already put together to be intentional you ...
Dec 14, 2022•22 min•Season 5Ep. 62
Juggling all the things in life and trying your best to balance career and finding a partner is doable, even if you’re not having much success right now. If you are having conversations and meeting men but the experiences aren’t lasting very long: hot-cold relationships, the men appear incompatible, and you put men on pedestals then this episode is for you. You already believe you can attract good men yet, it feels like there’s something missing in your courtship experiences and you can’t put yo...
Dec 12, 2022•45 min•Season 5Ep. 61
If you're a successful woman and you're actively meeting men, but the relationships don’t last very long and you find yourself always getting to the same relationship milestone and then the relationship falls off, then this episode is for you. Right now, it may feel like you attract hot-cold, start-stop relationships or men who just won’t commit and although you may not feel completely dissatisfied with the men you’re meeting, you just want your experiences to be better and to actually attract c...
Dec 05, 2022•38 min•Season 5Ep. 60
This behind the scenes episode of the courtship code podcast features a Monday live coffee chat about staying aligned during courtship, boundaries in relationships with men, and aligning with your feminine energy. Every Monday in CCC, The Captivating Courtship Code Accelerator program, Zara goes live to answer Q&A directly in the coaching community for real-time feedback. This episode shares a clip of a weekly livestream and provides direct answers to clients questions. Join the FREE live Re...
Dec 03, 2022•20 min•Season 5Ep. 59
Do you want to attract more love and money in 2023? In this episode you'll learn the energetics of attracting more love and money, and why many successful, high achieving women struggle with attracting love and more financial abundance, even if you're already living a great life. If you want to attract a relationship and improve your dating & courtship experiences you'll want to open your feminine receiving energy to attract more abundance in these areas of life. Love and money operates with...
Nov 28, 2022•38 min•Season 5Ep. 58
In this episode we explore the common question today's woman faces, "Should I relocate to attract love?" If this is a question you've asked yourself, the answer may be YES and NO. Yes, because we've coached lots of women in CCC to attract and court men in long distance relationships successfully, and for some this could help solve their marriage problem. Yet, for most there are many of other steps you can take first that will make attracting a partner in your local city much easier and probable....
Nov 21, 2022•45 min•Season 5Ep. 57
In this episode you'll learn about attracting a match for marriage as a successful woman and why you want to be intentional about attracting a match for commitment so that you aren't wasting time with men who are not ready for commitment. We talk about strategic matching and how to quickly identify and meet men who are compatible and a good fit for you. Do you want to learn how CCC can help you? Book a 15 minute Courtship Assessment call https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=378915...
Nov 16, 2022•14 min•Season 5Ep. 56
Behind the scenes two part episode of a Monday Coffee Chat about changing your relationship with rejection and learning to accept your journey as a single woman. Every Monday Zara goes live directly in the coaching community to answer questions and provide direct feedback in real-time. This episode dives into the necessary mindset shifts, actions, and beliefs around what it means for a relationship to end or to be rejected in order to have a healthy love life attract a better partner. CCC 2.0 IS...
Nov 10, 2022•42 min
Behind the scenes two part episode of a Monday Coffee Chat about changing your relationship with rejection and learning to accept your journey as a single woman. Every Monday Zara goes live directly in the coaching community to answer questions and provide direct feedback in real-time. This episode dives into the necessary mindset shifts, actions, and beliefs around what it means for a relationship to end or to be rejected in order to have a healthy love life attract a better partner. CCC 2.0 IS...
Nov 08, 2022•31 min•Season 5Ep. 54
Let’s address a big elephant you may not even realize is in the room. The belief that relationship coaching is for rich white women. The thought that only the privileged pay for relationship services like coaching, matchmaking, or other high-end love investments, and that it’s not what, “We do.” And you’re absolutely correct. So on this episode we discuss this very limiting belief and how to shift away from it. CCC IS NOW OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT Apply now www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching...
Nov 02, 2022•30 min•Season 5Ep. 53
Courtship should be a memorable experience, not a discouraging one. High achieving women, like you, work hard enough daily. You carry mental weight from work. Emotional weight from your family. And right now, your love life may feel equally heavy. This is why you SHOULDN’T have to work hard at attracting a partner, and carry all of the weight to make it happen, alone. On today's episode we discuss why courtship should be enjoyable and how to make it a more enjoyable experience. DOORS TO CCC 2.0 ...
Nov 01, 2022•28 min•Season 5Ep. 52
Bonus Episode: 10 Mistakes Coaching Clients Make to Avoid Apply to CCC 2.0 and Book your Consultation www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Free Breakup with your type masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup
Oct 25, 2022•1 hr 9 min
You are not crazy for not being married yet. You are still a great catch even if you haven’t met your match, YET. Unfortunately, it’s normal to feel ashamed of your love life when you’ve done well in other areas of your life, yet, you still struggle with relationships. It’s normal to want to experience the next chapter of your life and be done with single life. And it’s okay that it’s taken some time for you to get here. On today's episode we discuss how to think about still not being married an...
Oct 25, 2022•39 min•Season 5Ep. 51
There are three skills high achieving women need for better courtship experiences. Right now, you may be lacking one of these skills. Or you could be lacking all three. There’s also the possibility that you have all three of these relationship skills, YET, you’re not applying them in the right way when it comes to dating & courtship. But if you want to meet more men quickly, and have better connections with the men you meet, you’ll want to embody all three of these relationship skills in the...
Oct 10, 2022•41 min•Season 5Ep. 50
Do you have a hard time balancing your career and making time to attract a partner? If you want to attract a great guy, have an interesting social life, and lessen burnout from always having to put work life and responsibilities first then this episode is for you. Right now, you may want to feel confident about options available and actually meeting them. And you may want to finally let go of the guy that’s just lingering around and not serious about commitment. But in this moment, considering a...
Oct 03, 2022•35 min•Season 5Ep. 49
On this episode Zara shares her journey with jumpstarting goals and coaching, the impact it's had on her life, and how to make the decision to jumpstart your love life with the same mindset and actions that's worked for her. DOORS TO THE RELATIONSHIP RESET ARE NOW OPEN Apply to Coaching Now www.captivatingcourtship.com/application
Sep 27, 2022•39 min•Season 5Ep. 48
On this bonus episode we discuss the importance of teaching men how to treat you and how to do it authentically to receive more love and commitment from men and the type of relationship you desire. Enrollment for The Relationship Reset Opens September 26th-30th Get on The Relationship Reset Waitlist https://app.convertkit.com/forms/designers/3485806/edit Questions? DM @zaracaptivatingcourtship...
Sep 24, 2022•29 min•Season 5Ep. 47
Today is a behind the scenes episode of our weekly Monday Coffee Chat. This live coaching snippet focuses on anxious attachment to men during courtship and the beginning of a relationship and how to reset it. Every week in coaching we bring you live coaching directly in our private student community, in addition to our weekly live coaching calls. The goal is to help you get clear and focused on taking action and to minimize any mind drama or clutter that's keeping you from attracting your relati...
Sep 19, 2022•20 min•Season 5Ep. 46
If meeting men has left you feeling exhausted, not getting past a few weeks or a few conversations, or you’re anxiously attaching to men as soon as you meet them then you may be meeting men the wrong way. Meeting more men doesn’t have to lead to painful disappointment and frustration. You may think the men you meet aren’t ready for commitment. But this thought only makes you lean in with anxious convincing energy and turn into the pursuer. What you actually need to think is that there are lots o...
Sep 13, 2022•24 min•Season 5Ep. 45
How you think about courtship will impact how you experience courtship. This means if you want courtship to feel good you must think good things about meeting new men, letting them know you’re single and looking, and accepting invitations to connect with them. When you tell your brain what to focus on, you will look for ways to make it happen. On today's episode we discuss how to train your brain to focus on creating thoughts and experiences that align with the type of courtship and men you desi...
Sep 05, 2022•29 min•Season 5Ep. 44
A part of resetting your love life is releasing your childhood insecurities so you can stop letting your wounded inner girl attract men. You’re not broken. You’re not damaged. You simply have some healing to do, that’s normal and okay. Stepping out of your Wounded Princess Energy will require more than writing in a journal or talking about your wounds. That’s just a start. You need to dive deep into your childhood insecurities and relationship wounds. Release them. Then create emotional availabi...
Aug 30, 2022•27 min•Season 5Ep. 43
Anxiously attached women often find themselves putting all their eggs in one basket (the man) very early on in the dating and courtship process. When you first meet a new guy that you really like, focusing on him and pre-committing to the idea of the relationship may feel like the most natural thing to do. This often leads to cycles of hot-cold relationships, time wasted, and completely running past red-flags. But the truth is, attachment is false security. On today's episode we discuss why putt...
Aug 23, 2022•27 min
If you think being an introvert gets in the way of attracting a partner, let me share a secret. Introverted women can experience courtship and meeting more quality men easier than you think. Your introversion will activate your authentic ability to embody feminine energy, communicate on a deeper level, and create authentic connections with quality men. This is a good thing. When a man feels safe with a woman it opens his heart and desire to commit to her faster. Enrollment for The Relationship R...
Aug 17, 2022•21 min•Season 5Ep. 41
Right now, you may think you’ve made a lot of mistakes and feel hopeless. Or that you only attract men who aren’t ready, non-committal or emotionally unavailable. But the truth is you have to know how to qualify men and make high quality relationship decisions. Making decisions for your love life that don’t align or feel consistent with what you want is not creating the type of love life you want. You want to make decisions that feel good and get you more of what you want with men. Enrollment fo...
Aug 16, 2022•26 min•Season 5Ep. 40
In this episode you'll learn 10 mistakes women make with courtship and attracting a relationship and how to avoid them. We also breakdown what's inside of the Relationship Reset coaching program, who it's for, and the enrollment process. JOIN THE RELATIONSHIP RESET WAITLIST CLICK HERE https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/5625f6a1a1 Questions? Send a DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Aug 11, 2022•45 min•Season 5Ep. 39
The gap between thinking and knowing is stopping you from attracting long-term commitment, today. Here's what you must understand, it’s not that men don’t see your real value or that men like the idea of you and not the real you. You simply aren’t communicating your value to the right men, in an authentic way, that makes your value UNDENIABLE. This is what closes the gap between thinking and knowing your worth. This is how high achieving women stop people pleasing. When you do this you will shif...
Aug 08, 2022•49 min•Season 5Ep. 38
If you want to feel secure, valued and pursued by a man who wants commitment, letting relationship anxiety drive the courtship process will always backfire. Instead, you need to communicate your value without attempting to prove you’re good enough to be chosen by overthinking, overdoing, and desperate clingy energy. When you do this you will no longer overthink every interaction. You will feel safe to enjoy courtship and let him lead the way. However, when you're anxiously attached to a man or r...
Aug 01, 2022•21 min•Season 5Ep. 37
What if you could hit the reset button on your love life and start taking action, increase your confidence, and meet lots of new men…would you? If so, then the first step to resetting is to break the pattern of not meeting men or meeting the wrong men. You can do this by getting clear on the current patterns that’s blocking love and reignite your intuition so you can trust yourself to make better relationship decisions. In this episode we discuss making the decision to reset your love life and t...
Jul 18, 2022•24 min•Season 5Ep. 36
Taking action, repeating experiences, not seeming to get past the same relationship point. You’re tired of hot-cold relationships and you've been in this cycle for years. What you really want a loving, committed relationship with a man who is emotionally available and ready for commitment without having to apply pressure or convince him. Here's the thing, you must actually believe that you can get off this treadmill and attract a partner. You have to decide that you will have a partner, or famil...
Jun 27, 2022•30 min•Season 5Ep. 35
