Ready to work on your match game plan? There are lots of benefits to having a clear match game plan to help you stop overthinking and feeling anxious and start making the right choices with men so you can stop wasting time and start attracting love. You need to grab you pen and paper so you can take notes on 3 must haves to begin creating your match game plan now. On today’s episode you’re going to learn 3 key areas to pay attention to for match clarity and action. Click here to listen now. Sign...
Aug 23, 2021•24 min•Season 4Ep. 42
Ever been curious about what really goes on behind the scenes of Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program? Today we’re going to go deep behind the walls of Captivating Courtship Code group coaching and you’re going to learn all about what happens behind the walls. This is the FIRST episode of it’s kind and we’re excited to bring it to you! Click here to listen now. DOORS TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN! www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptiva...
Aug 16, 2021•46 min•Season 4Ep. 41
One major mistake many smart women make with courtship and dating is investing too much time and energy into the wrong men. But, sometimes it’s REALLY hard to tell who the wrong men are? And it can feel super confusing when the wrong men say and are doing all the right things. On todays’ episode I’m going to share with you what my clients do to player proof their love life and what you can do to stop wasting time with the wrong men and spot the right men faster. DOORS TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CO...
Aug 09, 2021•19 min•Season 4Ep. 40
There are a few more months before the end of the year and if you feel your love life is exactly where it was at the beginning of the year, or even since last year, then this episode is for you. There’s still time to meet a great guy and get closer to your dream relationship goals. But you can’t get there if you’re taking the same exact steps or not taking any steps at all. There are 6 steps I take all of my clients through that I’m going to share with you today. DOORS TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP C...
Aug 02, 2021•29 min•Season 4Ep. 39
Being in a cycle of attracting the same men and experiences feels exhausting. You can truly begin to believe your love life will never change and that you will stay single and unhappy forever. The good thing is you can change this, and you can change it quickly. You just have to know how to stop attracting and entering relationships with the same kinds of men and going about courtship and dating in the same kinds of way. On today’s episode I share with exactly what you need to know to change thi...
Jul 26, 2021•26 min•Season 4Ep. 38
A few things that happen when you overthink with men: You experience paralyzing thoughts, you communicate reactively (like reactive texts), and you make assumptions that causes conflict. Ultimately, you push men away. And if you’ve been experiencing this, courtship can feel extremely draining and like you’re not making progress or as though as soon as you get close to a man the relationship is over. No woman feels good going through cycles of this. So, you need to stop overthinking and pushing m...
Jul 19, 2021•29 min•Season 4Ep. 37
In my years of matchmaking one thing I noticed was a major disconnect between what women desire for their love life vs how they were showing up with men. And one thing they lacked, especially women over 30, was a greater understanding of how to move their love life forward, quickly. You don’t have to make these same mistakes. You can be your own matchmaker and no longer let love come naturally when you can be intentional and get to prioritizing your relationship goals. In today's episode I’m bre...
Jul 12, 2021•42 min•Season 4Ep. 36
Do you struggle with consistently dating & courting men for at least 30 days? The first 90 days of courtship is important in order for a relationship to move to a more serious commitment. This is the time where connection and communication are key. But if you feel like this period is the hardest milestone for you to break, it's important for you to push past your barriers by creating a Match Game Plan. If you've been experiencing hot and cold courtships or feel as though you're just not enjo...
Jul 05, 2021•30 min•Season 4Ep. 35
Have you ever believed that your current financial or career status is having a negative effect on your love life? Confident women struggle with feeling their finances, career goals, or lack of career focus is the core reason why men aren’t interested or that they should put off courtship until life and money problems are perfect. There’s a certain way to shift this belief that can create a lot of confidence and motivate you to meet a great man who will value and love you exactly where you curre...
Jun 28, 2021•19 min•Season 4Ep. 32
Do you feel uncertain, anxious, or fearful a man will pop into your life then suddenly leave? Or do you ever struggle with fearing committing to the right man? If so, this episode’s guest details how she went from feeling unclear and uncertain to shifting her relationship mindset to gain the confidence needed to improve her love life in just a few months. BOOK YOUR CAPTIVATING SESSION NOW LIMITED COACHING SPOTS AVAILABLE www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply
Jun 23, 2021•34 min•Season 4Ep. 31
Want to easily meet more men who are ready to commit? Today I’m sharing 3 things you must pay attention to in order to improve your odds of meeting a man who is marriage and commitment ready, and stop wasting time with men who will never move the relationship forward. Grab a pen and paper to jot down these 3 questions you want to pay attention to with every man you meet and are considering for a serious relationship so you can avoid hoping men will commit and step into your power during courtshi...
Jun 21, 2021•26 min•Season 4Ep. 30
Ready, set, ACTION! It’s time to take massive action with your match game plan. In just a few weeks you can increase the amount of quality relationship options you have and quickly turn your love life around. On this episode I’m going to share with you my favorite courtship strategy to give you major momentum in 90 days or less, and meet more men who are ready to commit without the stress of waiting to be chosen. Passion Attraction Prototype Workshop: www.captivatingcourtship/getpap Download the...
Jun 18, 2021•26 min•Season 4Ep. 29
Do you find yourself feeling like you’re not getting your relationship needs met with men? Do you tend to attract people who refuse to commit, don’t respect your boundaries, and aren’t pursuing you enough to make you feel loved and desirable? One this episode I’m sharing one major mistake you may be making that’s causing the men you’re meeting to show up low value and not meet your relationship needs, and what you can do about it. ENROLLMENT IS NOW OPEN www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply DOORS C...
Jun 16, 2021•22 min•Season 4Ep. 28
People pleasing doesn’t win love. Even if you attract a relationship, you’re more likely to be unhappy and dissatisfied with your love life and the types of men you attract because you’re working super hard to get and keep them. People pleasing is a sign of the Love Me pattern that keeps you very low value and overextending yourself with men in hopes they’ll see your value and want to commit. This is draining and not the type of love life you want to create. On this episode we explore more signs...
Jun 14, 2021•25 min•Season 4Ep. 27
Want to know a major excuse many confident women make when it comes to attracting a quality relationship? Meeting the right man and getting married can be a challenge. Courtship and dating can require an amount of effort many women will avoid in order to stay in their comfort zone. Yet, this excuse I’m sharing on today’s episode is one that can be completely avoided, and once you get over the hump of this excuse you can open up doors to love, commitment, and an enjoyable courtship experience. BO...
Jun 07, 2021•25 min•Season 4Ep. 26
Women who consider themselves to be overthinkers often carry the burden of deep love blocks that prevents them from being able to move forward with their love life and do what’s required to commit to taking the right steps with relationships to attract a loving partnership. It’s not simply because they just can’t help overthinking. It’s because they need to have a system to take action that gets them results and builds their confidence with love. Want to learn that system? Listen to today’s epis...
May 31, 2021•20 min•Season 4Ep. 26
If you feel unclear about your love blocks and what the next best steps for your love life should be this episode breaks down getting the support, clarity, and next best steps to move your love life forward. Wounded Princess energy will sabotage your love life, even if you attract your spouse, this wounded energy will cause conflict and emotional disconnects that will prevent the deep love and connection you desire with your partner beyond a sexual exchange. If you’ve struggled with emotional re...
May 24, 2021•21 min•Season 4Ep. 25
Have you ever felt your career, intellect or accomplishments have made it difficult for you to open up with men and relax into your feminine energy? Do you question if you’ll be able to turn off your independence or powerful leadership skills with men in order to keep them interested and in their masculine energy, so they’re continuing to pursue you and treat you as the queen you know you are? It can be difficult for many ambitious women to feel confident leaning into their femininity and for ma...
May 17, 2021•24 min•Season 4Ep. 24
Has being guarded and having trust issues been sabotaging your love life and blocking your chances at a dream relationship? Have you completely lost trust with yourself and a disconnection from your intuition and have no idea when or if you’ll ever feel motivated to open your heart to a man again? Many women experience painful or traumatic relationship and dating/courtship experiences that makes them run away from love. This lack of trust and motivation is the exact reason you’ll continue to eit...
May 10, 2021•20 min•Season 4Ep. 23
Do you feel like men stop investing in you and showing up in their masculine energy the moment you begin showing interest and build a real connection with them? What if you could learn how to keep him investing in the relationship and pursuing it without you having to tell him what to do, force, pressure, or plan every step of the way? If you’ve been experiencing a lot of hot-cold or push-pull relationships, especially in the first 30-90 days of courtship, you have to learn how to get a man to c...
May 03, 2021•22 min•Season 4Ep. 22
If you’ve been in a space of doing, fixing, suggesting, and proving you’re good enough with men then you’ve been operating in your wounded princess energy. This energy is total sabotage and can make you feel anxious, fearful of abandonment, and powerless with men. Part of the problem is you put men on a pedestal and aren’t showing up in your value. The other reason may be you’re too activated in your masculine energy and feeling the need to manage and control the relationship. This sounds harsh,...
Apr 26, 2021•16 min•Season 4Ep. 21
The relationship with your parents can have a major impact on how you attract men, lack boundaries, and the ways you may be sabotaging your love life. This can be a shocking reality for some, but even those from stable two parent households can mirror behaviors or patterns that contradicts the outcomes they want from men and relationships. If you want more from your relationships, yet, you seem to consistently attract partners who aren’t emotionally available, activate relationship anxiety, or y...
Apr 19, 2021•27 min•Season 4Ep. 20
Many ambitious, intelligent women run into a courtship rut where they feel they’re in cycles of meeting men who only like the idea of them and not the real them. This is a common statement and can concern women who have the Trophy Passion Attraction Prototype. You want a man who is open and emotionally available, yet, men appear to be more concerned with how you’d represent them and the trophy you’d be for their life that you don’t feel they’re invested in truly getting to know and value you the...
Apr 12, 2021•27 min•Season 4Ep. 19
Today’s episode shares how playing the waiting game with your love life is killing your chances at attracting a new relationship and delaying the experiences you must have in order to improve the quality of your courtships & relationships. You can make decisions that makes it easy for you to live and stay in your value that will always increase your love life, I’m going to tell you how. Doors to the captivating courtship code coaching program are closing soon. This is the perfect time to com...
Apr 05, 2021•21 min•Season 4Ep. 18
Today I’m sharing a 4 step framework women I’ve worked with in matchmaking & coaching have used to meet their husbands online. Listen, meeting a partner online is far more normal than you may think. It’s not easy, but it doesn’t have to be a major hardship when you have clarity and a plan that allows you to take action with intention. I’m breaking it down on today’s episode. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.c...
Apr 02, 2021•23 min•Season 4Ep. 17
Are you tired of being told you must be submissive to be feminine or to be the “ideal” woman? This is an outdated belief that many women have been pressured to take on in order to try to appeal to a man’s ego. What actually happens is you become a woman who lacks boundaries, self worth, and has no clue how to actually get what she wants out of her man so you just go along to get along. Today, I’m going to share with you what you really need to focus on in order to attract a man’s love & hear...
Mar 31, 2021•34 min•Season 4Ep. 16
Attracting the same type of men every time is saying something about your present choices. On today’s episode, Ayesha, a student of the Captivating Courtship Code, shares her experience of healing from a toxic marriage in her past and becoming emotionally available again. To begin with, just like most of us, she thought, “There are no good men out there for me” or “Why do I attract the same toxic men every time?”. It was not until the quarantine that she had the space and time to reflect interna...
Mar 29, 2021•38 min•Season 4Ep. 15
Have you ever feared that adding a relationship to your life will mean you'll have to sacrifice your career and accomplishments? You're not alone. Many women fear they'll have to choose between love and family or the career and education you've worked so hard for. There's an important message I want to share about this belief that's could be holding you back from stepping into the light of having it all. Checkout today's episode. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Book your FRE...
Mar 26, 2021•17 min•Season 4Ep. 14
You’ve been waiting for it, so here it is! On today’s episode you’ll learn exactly how one woman used the Captivating Courtship Code to transform her love to getting married within 12 months. Yes, you too can use this code no matter where you are in your love life or courtship process to improve the quality of your relationships, attract a committed partner, and learn relationship skills that will last throughout marriage. If you’re curious about the Captivating Courtship Code and how it can wor...
Mar 24, 2021•29 min•Season 4Ep. 13
Can alpha women attract masculine alpha men, or are reserved for a certain type of woman? Despite what you may have been told, even ambitious, accomplished alpha women can use their feminine energy to attract an alpha man and create amazing experiences that aligns with his value and inspires him to keep coming back and commit. Let's discuss on today's episode! DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Disc...
Mar 22, 2021•41 min•Season 4Ep. 12
