So you’ve had a few failed relationships and lovers that didn’t go as planned? No worries, you can turn this around with the right steps, just as some of our favorite girl bosses have. In this episode I share with you three case studies who have drastically improved the quality of their love life in a short amount of time :Ciara, Meagan Goode, and Serena Williams. All of these women didn’t let their success, failed relationships, or not so clean past get in the way of finding high quality men wh...
Mar 21, 2021•24 min•Season 4Ep. 11
Do toxic men desire high achieving women? If you desire a healthy relationship with a quality man but find yourself attracted to toxic, narcissistic, emotionally unavailable men you may be surprised to find out you’re exactly the kind of woman at the top of their list. Why? Because you’re a prize. However, your attraction to them and confusing charisma and chemistry with compatibility is what’s keeping you in this cycle of low value attraction. Let’s talk all about it on this episode. DOORS TO T...
Mar 17, 2021•17 min•Season 4Ep. 10
Confident women often struggle behind closed doors with feeling worthy of the love and relationship they desire. They take actions and have mindsets that totally sabotage attracting the men and relationships they truly want in their lives. So much misinformation on the internet about what it means to be a high value feminine woman is actually working against confident women and making them feel anxious, undeserving, and causing them to do the absolute most to prove their wife worthy. I talk all ...
Mar 15, 2021•29 min•Season 4Ep. 9
Curious to know how long does it take or when should you determine if a man is a good fit for you? On today's episode I breakdown the way you need to start thinking about courtship and how you can shift your experience and make it easier and take a carefree approach to courtship and relationships that will give you skills that will benefit you in your marriage and increase attraction over and over again. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to...
Mar 09, 2021•19 min•Season 4Ep. 9
What happens when you wait until it’s too late to discover how to identify relationship incompatibility? The reality is some relationships aren’t meant to last forever and some things are simply out of your control. However, there are aspects of courtship & dating that are within your control. The moment you learn how to navigate those aspects the more magnetic, captivating, and empowered you will feel with men. The longer you take to master these aspects, the bigger the impact they will hav...
Mar 01, 2021•42 min•Season 4Ep. 8
Even confident, go-getting, high achieving women can struggle with feeling not good enough or fearful that they may have to make some changes to become more attractive and ideal for the kinds of men and relationship they desire to attract. The truth is there are some changes that you may have to make, but not in the way you may currently believe. Today’s episode we discuss the truth behind making changes in order to attract compatible men and why or why not you should do it. Join the FREE Become...
Feb 26, 2021•17 min•Season 4Ep. 7
Want to create more clarity, confidence, and compatibility so you become a magnet for the right men?Attracting the right partners can be a challenge, but it’s a greater challenge when you feel out of control of the process, anxious, and uncertain. You can have a loving, healthy, high quality relationship with the right shifts. In this episode we breakdown the importance of becoming a magnet for the right men for you, and how to create this in your love life. TODAY kicks off the FREE Become a Mag...
Feb 24, 2021•28 min•Season 4Ep. 6
Are you a woman over age 30 (or close to age 30) struggling with staying hopeful about meeting a quality man and attracting a quality relationship? Many women struggle with staying positive and believing they can have a good partner as they're maturing in life. The thing you need to know is that men get better with age and you have a lot of positive experiences to look forward to after age 30. In this episode we dive into what to expect and the mindset shift you need to make to prepare for the b...
Feb 22, 2021•27 min•Season 4Ep. 6
Are quality men hard to find? It's about your mindset. There are quality men that exist and desire a good woman, but you have to be open to receive them and ready to be a magnet for them. In this episode we discuss shifting your mindset and belief around attracting quality men so you can be open to receiving the love and companionship you desire. REGISTER for the FREE 3 Day Magnetic Bootcamp www.captivatingcourtship.com/magneticbootcamp Leave a podcast review Follow @ZaraJCaptivatingCourtship Re...
Feb 19, 2021•20 min•Season 4Ep. 5
If you've been wasting time with incompatible men and attracting partners who have been slowing down your love life and impacting the quality of your live and dreams, this is the episode for you. We will dive into the importance of avoiding low quality, incompatible relationships and the devastating impact they have on your mental, emotional, and physical health. We will also discuss what to pay attention to to know if you're in or attracting low quality relationships. REGISTER for the FREE 3 Da...
Feb 17, 2021•24 min•Season 4Ep. 4
Ready to meet quality men? There are lots of places you can start showing up, both online and offline, to meet, date, or court quality men. It's all about where you're showing up and allowing yourself to be approachable and open to meet men who value and embody the characteristics of men who are marriage ready and marriage quality. In this episode we discuss 3 strategic places for you to spend your time to start meeting and positioning yourself to meet quality men. REGISTER for the FREE 3 Day Ma...
Feb 15, 2021•18 min•Season 4Ep. 3
Sometimes men pull away and lack consistency when it comes to communication and phone calls. That can leave you feeling very undesirable, frustrated, and confused. Especially when a man has been showing up and showing interest and then suddenly falls off the map. In this episode we discuss five reasons why he doesn't call consistently and some tips on what to do about it. REGISTER for the FREE 3 Day Magnetic Bootcamp www.captivatingcourtship.com/magneticbootcamp Leave a podcast review Follow @Za...
Feb 12, 2021•22 min•Season 4Ep. 2
Have you been in a pattern of attracting incompatible relationships? On this episode of the Courtship Code, we discuss common mistakes women make with attraction and why it often leads to relationships and courting incompatible men. You'll also gain understanding on why shifting this aspect of your dating and courtship life is important in order to feel more confident about men, relationships, and your love life. REGISTER for the FREE 3 Day Magnetic Bootcamp www.captivatingcourtship.com/magnetic...
Feb 10, 2021•22 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Time for a heart to heart about questioning the credibility of the men in your life and others because you’re scared to let go of control and trust yourself. Trust is a tricky thing to give and experience when you’re disconnected from your intuition and not clear on how to make decisions or feeling confident about trusting yourself. Not trusting yourself can be really uncomfortable to admit and requires you being deeply transparent with yourself. Before you can trust anyone else you must be able...
Feb 08, 2021•41 min•Season 3Ep. 57
The New Year has started and you’ve made the decision this year you’ll take courtship and marriage more seriously? If not, why are you waiting for heartbreak? You need to be proactive about your relationships instead of waiting for another disaster and fallout to happen before deciding to do something different. You can make the choice now, to learn how to captivate courtship, heal your attraction patterns, and court compatible partners in less time. On this week’s episode I’m sharing why waitin...
Feb 05, 2021•20 min•Season 3Ep. 56
You hold so much value when you’re in your authenticity and femininity but if you’ve been attracting from neediness, clinginess, or other low value behaviors and communication you’re pushing the right men away, fast. You don’t want to be needy AND you don’t want a man to NEED YOU. You want to be valued, desired, and cared for...and all of this is available to you. Here’s the inside scoop...checkout this week’s episode. DOWNLOAD PLAYBOOK Www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook BOOK 30 MINUTE CAPTIV...
Feb 03, 2021•37 min•Season 3Ep. 55
If you’re struggling with vulnerability, self worth, and your feminine energy it’s pretty hard to maintain a deeper connection with man that allows them to feel connected to you and one that inspires connection and commitment. Embodying these powerful energies as a high value woman transforms your love life and draws men to you in a way that leaves you feeling highly desired, pursued, and protected. You deserve to be loved and valued for the woman you are. You also have to step up into the emoti...
Feb 01, 2021•22 min•Season 3Ep. 54
Therapy is really important and a valuable aspect of personal development and growth. However, it’s not the same as coaching. While therapy is excellent for helping you talk about your problems or where they stem from...it’s not the go to tool to help you move the needle forward and create a different experience, that’s the benefit of coaching. If you’ve been sitting on the fence about coaching and not sure if having a relationship coach or a therapist is your next step, this week’s episode will...
Jan 25, 2021•26 min•Season 3Ep. 53
Have you ever been called needy or combative? What about a ghoster, avoider, or that you withdraw? If so, this is a form of sabotage and low value communication that’s triggering unpleasant experiences, keeping you frustrated, and repelling the high value men you want to commit. The key is learning to inspire connection instead of sparking conflict. Let’s break this down and why the power of your femininity is all you need to inspire men to pursue and show up as the protectors and providers they...
Jan 18, 2021•35 min•Season 3Ep. 52
Want tips on how to make your online profile pop? As a previous owner of a matchmaking service one thing I’ve spent years doing and mastering was building attractive profiles. Your online profile is the #1 most impactful aspect to your online match experience. You MUST have an attractive profile and know other hacks that will help you get seen faster and by the right people. If you’re looking to use online dating this year this week’s episode will give you 3 things you must do to improve your on...
Jan 11, 2021•23 min•Season 3Ep. 51
It’s time to get past your past and give up the power that heartbreak and rejection has had over you. Hard truth: Your past CAN define your future. That sounds harsh, but it’s reality IF you allow your past to dictate and sabotage your present and future. So here’s what you need to do to reset your past and create a dynamic and loving future. Www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook
Jan 05, 2021•40 min•Season 3Ep. 50
I want to share a secret with you: there’s a direct connection between your love and money mindset. Even if you’re an amazing woman with a successful career, there may still be money blocks that are showing up in your life that are a direct reflection of your love blocks. I’ve seen it time and time again. These blocks are sneaky and are running on autopilot in your life and have a direct impact on what you could be experiencing vs what you are experiencing. This is the powerful episode you need ...
Jan 04, 2021•29 min•Season 3Ep. 49
If you feel frustrated, yet, scared to seek help with your love life you’re not alone. When women come decide to join coaching a few things they often express is: Not having a strong support system to guide them with relationships and love. Desiring not to have the same relationships as the women around them. If you can relate, what I’ve found is this drive and desire you have to break generational relationship wounds is exactly what you may need to commit to a new love life and receive the true...
Dec 21, 2020•26 min•Season 3Ep. 48
Wait, before you listen to this episode I want you to know you 100% ARE a high value woman...but, you may be displaying low value behaviors that has you attracting and showing up in your love life in a way that’s repelling the types of men and relationships you desire instead of the high value woman you truly are. When I created the Captivating Courtship Code it was intended to help you learn how to heal what’s been causing you to show up low value and learn how to authentically attract and intu...
Dec 14, 2020•59 min•Season 3Ep. 47
Pull out your pen and journal as we embark into the New Year together. On this week’s episode we’re going to dive into 5 actionable tips that can move your love life along this year and begin to take action to create better experiences in your love life. This year DOES NOT have to be the same as last year. There are real steps you can take and real results you can get, and you don’t have to struggle love your way through your love life. That’s all ego, sis. Let’s do it together. After listening ...
Dec 07, 2020•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 46
Do you want to know a major mistake you may be making that’s keeping you stuck for years and years? It’s taking on other people’s issues. By living through other people’s relationship experiences you’re operating in a state of fear and panic where you’re overly consumed that you may go through some negative experiences like the people around you, or you’re so worried about making mistakes you’re not taking any action and doing what you need to do to shift your love life now. This is a pattern th...
Nov 30, 2020•34 min•Season 3Ep. 45
If you’ve spent most of your life trying to be “good” you probably have deep wounds around people pleasing and trying to prove you’re a good woman and that’s the reason why men should choose you. Only being good is not a reason a man wants to commit to you. Do men want a good woman? Yes. Do they want a woman who is their emotional blanket and feels she needs to prove just how good of a woman she is? No. So what’s the real tea on why you being a good woman will never be good enough? Listen to thi...
Nov 23, 2020•20 min•Season 3Ep. 44
There’s some major challenges a woman who’s emotionally unavailable may experience in relationships, especially when committed. Oddly enough, they may have an easy time attracting relationships in the beginning because they appear to be so easy going. The downfall is when they enter a commitment they continue to struggle with expressing and showing emotions. This often leds to major disconnects in relationships that drives men away. Today we’re going to dive into the challenges of emotionally un...
Nov 16, 2020•25 min•Season 3Ep. 43
It may be a surprise for women who have figured out how to master their education, career, or business that those same skills don’t always mean they’ll figure out how to navigate courtship and relationships. The truth is I’ve worked with lots of women who are high achievers who never learned how to attract partners with intention or are unaware they need to change how they’ve been engaging with men because their fear of failure makes them totally blind that THEY could actually need to shift...in...
Nov 09, 2020•24 min•Season 3Ep. 42
Tired of chasing men? I hear you, sis. Here’s the thing, there’s a deeper reason why you feel the need to chase and pursue men instead of being in your feminine energy and allowing a man to show up and commit. This pattern is definitely sabotaging you from attracting the masculine man you desire and from feeling like the prize in relationships. You’re treating men like the prize, trophy, and the BAG. It’s not your job to secure the BAG. You need to learn to court men without feeling the need to ...
Nov 03, 2020•30 min•Season 3Ep. 41
