Being a professional matchmaker taught me a ton of lessons that led me to creating the Captivating Courtship Code. Any of these lessons can get you one step closer to understanding what’s been making courtship difficult for you AND they will make all of your relationships better. Because how you do one thing is how you do everything. So, by improving your romantic relationships and applying the lessons I'm going to share with you on this episode you can improve your personal and professional rel...
Jun 20, 2022•40 min•Season 5Ep. 34
In today's episode I share my own personal journey with commitment and how I've had to learn to think about my own personal struggles with staying committed, and what I've done to focus on my health goals instead of giving up. I also share how the same mindset will help you in your journey to finding a partner and your relationship goals. Doors to Coaching Close June 15th Apply now www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Jun 15, 2022•42 min•Season 5Ep. 33
Doors to the Captivating Courtship Code 1.0 are closing for good June 15th. Want to know how to make courtship fun again and get back in control of your love life? This episode breaks it all down for you. In this episode you'll know all the details to know if CCC is the right fit for you before the opportunity to get coached to your happily ever after goes away. APPLY TO CCC AND BOOK CONSULTATION www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Send DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram...
Jun 13, 2022•38 min•Season 5Ep. 32
Getting to know your relationship patterns and breaking old patterns that no longer work for you is the first step towards attracting a stable relationship, all while not being hard on yourself. This isn’t easy. So today we have a testimonial episode of The Captivating Courtship Code student who not only broke old relationship patterns but also attracted her husband in less than 12 months. Join us as Farah, a student of CCC, shares a sneak peak into her journey from a Wounded Princess to a Capti...
Jun 10, 2022•24 min•Season 5Ep. 31
If you have been stuck in a situationship more than once, it’s not by chance, it’s by design. It’s a pattern which you think you can’t break through because running back to the past seems familiar, safe and comfortable. OR You’re on the other end of the spectrum trying to desperately move on without resolving and working on your own past relationship trauma. You know you don’t feel valued or respected but you don’t know what to do about it. Either way, this podcast is for you. In this episode we...
Jun 08, 2022•29 min•Season 5Ep. 31
It’s hard not to feel anxious, fearful of rejection or try to control the outcome with men when you don’t know how to court for commitment. Relationships can feel scary. You don’t want to get hurt or repeat past mistakes.And when you’re trying to figure out what you don’t know about courting for commitment on your own it’s easy to run back to past patterns or avoid meeting new men. Courtship becomes easy and attracting the right ready man happens faster when you know how to court for commitment ...
Jun 06, 2022•26 min•Season 5Ep. 30
If you’re meeting men and not happy with the experiences, you have a connection block or a communication block. You can turn this around, learn to court for commitment, and feel good doing it in the next 90 days with my simple 6 step process . But right now, it’s either your communication or your connection skills that’s blocking love. It’s simple because the Captivating Courtship Code guides you step-by-step through every courtship milestone that leads to commitment in 6 simple steps. I can tea...
Jun 03, 2022•20 min•Season 5Ep. 29
If you hate dating apps you don’t have to use them to meet men. You can delete every single app, come off social media, and never use a third party connector to introduce you to new men, ever again. Because the truth is HOW you’re meeting men isn’t WHY you’re not meeting men, or why you don’t enjoy courting for commitment. Listen, dating apps aren’t your enemy no more than being an introvert is stopping you from meeting men in person. You have more power in your love life than that. And that’s n...
Jun 01, 2022•27 min•Season 5Ep. 28
If you haven’t gotten to a space in your love life where you’re meeting new men, getting in person experiences, and working towards commitment with a man who is ready there are 3 simple things you can change to increase your pool of compatible options for a committed relationship. Yes, it’s just that simple. Any one of these 3 steps can increase your pool of options, get you lots of new real life experiences, and speed up the time to meet a man who is ready to commit. Can you imagine having a co...
May 30, 2022•43 min•Season 5Ep. 27
If you’re feeling lost with where to start, how to actually court for commitment, courting a man who won’t commit, or can’t figure out why you’re always so close to being in the relationship you desire but conversations around commitment always go left, and you can’t figure out why… You’ll want to pay close attention to this episode. The path to courting for commitment can easily be broken down in 5 simple phases. Knowing what phase you’re in, how to know if the man is actually ready for commitm...
May 16, 2022•41 min•Season 5Ep. 26
Do you have a fear your relationship options are limited so you'll be single forever? If you've had those thoughts or want to run far away from similar thoughts, this is the episode for you. Thinking your options are limited is exactly what limits your relationship options and creates the feeling of hopelessness and pressure during the dating & courtship process. This is the opposite of what you want to feel and how courtship to commitment should feel. In today's episode we discuss how to th...
May 09, 2022•10 min
Do you believe you haven't met your partner because you just don't know where to meet a man? If so, this episode is for you. Many women think that they're limited to finding a partner because they just don't know where to meet a partner, but that's not true. The truth is, there are other things that's causing you to not meet your partner, and until you work that noise out of your love journey you won't meet the man you desire. In this episode you'll learn what's actually blocking you from meetin...
May 02, 2022•21 min
There are 3 high value mindsets that make you more attractive to the types of men you desire. However, there are also 3 main low value mindsets that will sabotage your love life. And if you have any of these mindsets you'll find yourself having a lot of noise in your head when it comes to courtship and dating. This noise will make your question your value, waste time, and be highly attracted to men who won't move the relationship forward. In this episode, we discuss the types of mindsets that re...
Apr 25, 2022•23 min
So often as women, we mistake high value relationships with materials or high earning men. And this can cause a ton of confusion and low value dating & courtship experiences. You may also believe that courting high value as a woman is about playing games, making the man chase you, or making the man jump through hurdles to prove he’s “the one.” On today's episode we discuss what high value courtship actually is and how to create it so you're no long attracting survival partners but thrive par...
Apr 18, 2022•20 min•Season 5Ep. 23
On today's episode we're sharing with you a clip from a Monday Coffee chat about trust & intentions from the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program. Every Monday Zara goes live in the private coaching community for Q&A and in depth coaching on a particular topic. This episode is from a livestream on trust, pure relationship intentions, and feminine intuition for those needing to self-check what they really want for their love life and if they're taking the necessary actions to recei...
Apr 11, 2022•25 min•Season 5Ep. 22
You’ve been making efforts to get your love life on the right track and that’s not easy, especially if you struggle with trusting the courtship process and feeling confident you can attract better relationships. So I want to share with you today key steps to increase trust that I share with the ladies of the Captivating Courtship Code program , so you can turn this around and open your heart fully to the opportunity of finding the right partner. In today's episode we're discussing the Loop of Di...
Apr 04, 2022•28 min•Season 5Ep. 21
Have you ever opened your heart to a courtship that eventually led to a disappointing breakup? We’ve all been there. In fact, it’s really hard to feel confident to trust again after disappointment and believing your guy was truly the right one for you… Want to know what I’ve learned? Oftentimes positive courtship experiences don’t fall off because a man wasn’t seriously interested in you. On today's episode we're discussing how to reset for a relationship after disappointment so you can confiden...
Mar 29, 2022•31 min•Season 5Ep. 20
When you’ve been through heartbreak, disappointment or trauma, no matter how big or small, it’s hard to trust yourself…let alone trust others. In Captivating Courtship Code we give you the tools you need to rebuild your trust muscles and get out of a scarcity mindset. Getting out of love survival mode and stepping into love abundance is required for you to finally trust yourself and create the relationship you desire. It’s not easy, but with support, guidance, and practice it will come. In this ...
Mar 21, 2022•36 min•Season 5Ep. 19
Do you remember Merida from Brave? Yes, Humairah reminds us of a disney character! A student of Captivating Courtship Code, she hit rock bottom when she felt disconnected not only from others around her but even herself. She knew something was off, she wasn’t showing up authentically in her relationships and always second guessed her own decisions. In this episode, Humairah tells us how exhausted she felt with men, the process of dating and herself when she took a break from courtship and decide...
Mar 16, 2022•54 min•Season 5Ep. 18
Are you ready to stop questioning if you’ll ever find the one? What if you could do it in 6 simple steps and use a process that has been proven to help women just like you attract their partner and change their love life within months? And what if you could do it without all the guesswork and heartbreak? In today's episode I share with you the 6 steps you need to attract your partner along with a special message for women over 30 who worry they're no longer marriage material. BOOK YOUR CONSULTAT...
Mar 14, 2022•33 min•Season 5Ep. 17
If you’ve ever felt like your career, ambition, intellect or independence makes you the type of woman men look over, I want to offer you consider this: Everyday I coach women who are the total package, beauty and brains. And even if you don’t believe that you’re the smartest or the prettiest woman in the world…the man who connects with your heart and values who you authentically are, DOES. Here’s the thing, that’s just it. You don’t see how valuable you ACTUALLY are. In today's episode you'll le...
Mar 11, 2022•32 min•Season 5Ep. 16
On today's episode we have an intimate conversation with a member of the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program about her journey from ex to next. She details her painful breakup and past toxic relationship, along with the inner and actionable changes she had to make to attract her husband within months of getting started with coaching. Are you ready to move on from your ex and step into your future marriage? DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN! www.captivatingcourtship.com...
Mar 09, 2022•56 min•Season 5Ep. 15
Are you a busy woman who feels clueless about how to meet compatible men who actually want to commit to marriage? Maybe you’ve already tried online dating and haven’t had any luck? Two mistakes many women make is taking a lot of the same efforts to meet men that’s not working…and not knowing how to meet and qualify lots of commitment ready men WHILE being pursued. NO CHASING. No more treating courtship like a job interview. On this episode we discuss how to get better at attracting commitment re...
Mar 07, 2022•34 min•Season 5Ep. 14
Have you ever experienced conflict during courtship that stirred up the fear of being ghosted and never hearing from your guy again? Now you’re feeling super anxious, checking your phone hoping he’ll text back, and deep down inside you know your emotional reactions may have been a little too much? And then you think…every time you get close to men and they see your flaws they leave? Because men like the idea of you and not the real you, right? And then it happens. He ends it. And you’re left fee...
Mar 04, 2022•30 min•Season 5Ep. 13
This is a very vulnerable episode for me. There have been a lot of things occurring in the past 24 hours that inspired today's episode. Are you a spiritual woman who's had the burden of having to break generational patterns and make new and different changes for your family tree? If so, this episode is for you. In this episode I'm sharing some personal things I've experienced in the past 24 hours that have been signs for my personal journey along with things I've personally had to do to change m...
Mar 02, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Season 5Ep. 12
Are you a career ambitious woman who worries your success will make you less attractive and desirable to the types of men you want to marry? Have you had men tell you your past or your love journey makes you unworthy of the partner you'd want? If so, this episode breaks down the truth and what you need to know about being an ambitious woman and finding your life partner or a committed relationship. CAPTIVATING COURTSHI CODE COACHING PROGRAM IS NOW OPEN www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Follo...
Feb 28, 2022•31 min•Season 5Ep. 12
March kicks off the first Captivating Month of the year, our group coaching enrollment period. During this month I'm going to share lots of information on how you can Captivate Courtship, Testimonial case studies, and lots if information on the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program. Have Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship APPLY NOW TO BOOK YOUR CALL www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Feb 27, 2022•6 min•Season 5Ep. 11
Have you recently gone through a breakup or divorce and have a hard time believing that you're going to be able to find love again? You're not alone. Many women share this experience and avoid taking a chance on love again out of fear of being hurt, or finding out they are no longer desirable. That's how one of my clients thought prior to working with me. She felt totally discouraged about getting married again, and after a toxic relationship that didn't last very long, she didn't think she'd ev...
Feb 21, 2022•12 min•Season 5Ep. 10
Have you ever tried online dating or asking friends to introduce you to men and feeling like nothing is helping you meet compatible, quality men? Now you’re feeling clueless about what to do or where to start meeting great guys, so you avoid the entire process? Maybe you’re burnt out from trying to figure why didn’t the guy who seemed interested call? Or why are all the men you’re meeting never the right fit for you? On today's episode we discuss what to do about feeling clueless in your love li...
Feb 17, 2022•15 min•Season 5Ep. 9
When I owned a matchmaking service I used to believe where to find a partner was the biggest challenge singles faced. But, I quickly realized there were key things women were overlooking and didn’t know how to identify that kept them single or wasting time way longer than they had to be. Yes, you do need to know the best actionable places to meet men, but what’s more important is meeting men who are ready to commit to you. On today’s episode we discuss what things you need to shift in order to t...
Feb 14, 2022•23 min•Season 5Ep. 8
