Have your relationship patterns been keeping you in a loop of attracting the same men and courtship experiences? What if I told you my clients are able to drastically improve the quality of their love life by breaking their relationship patterns, get engaged or even married within a year of working with me? There are some key things you can shift in the next 6 months that can truly change your love life and help you attract a compatible, commitment ready partner. On today's episode we discuss ev...
Feb 10, 2022•20 min
If you’re used to being the strong friend and the one everyone leans on for advice, you may feel really isolated when it comes to your love life. You may turn to your friends for advice on where to meet someone, why your ex won’t commit, or what you may need to do differently but their answers are vague, negative, or just plain unhelpful. On today’s episode we’re chatting about why your friend's advice won’t actually help your love life move forward, and what to do about it instead. Links mentio...
Feb 07, 2022•23 min•Season 5Ep. 6
Have you ever met a man and after one conversation you’re planning the wedding, baby names, and your life together in your head? And then you experience a major shift in the developing relationship. Suddenly, he’s no longer pursuing you and appears to have lost interest. You then become even more anxious and do anything you can to keep his attention or the connection, and before you know it the hot flame has burned out and he’s gone completely cold? If you can relate, this episode is for you. To...
Feb 03, 2022•19 min•Season 5Ep. 5
When I first started matchmaking I was naive to the psychology of relationships and why people continued to create the same experiences over and over again. No matter the degree, income bracket, or desire for marriage I’d see the same behaviors that caused clients to sabotage their own happiness. After my 5th year of working in the industry, one day it just hit me what was really going on. I’m going to share with you exactly what I learned in this episode. Links mentioned in today’s episode: Boo...
Jan 31, 2022•29 min•Season 5Ep. 4
Want to know a secret most relationship coaches won’t tell you? Looking for Red Flags is the WRONG way to Attract Quality Men. You need to shift your focus away from Red Flags because it’s making you anxious, judgemental, and taking you out of your feminine energy. You’re so focused on trying to see if a man is Bad for you that you’re not paying attention to who’s ACTUALLY right for you. Then what happens is your relationship lens gets so hyper focused on negativity that you aren’t open and avai...
Jan 28, 2022•20 min
Believing being a feminine woman means shrinking yourself, people pleasing, or being inauthentic so you can be seen as wife worthy is the complete opposite of being feminine and causes low value attraction, relationship anxiety, and for some high achieving women, you’ll avoid meeting men altogether out of fear of rejection and not being “submissive enough” for the types of men you desire. This is WRONG and here’s what you ACTUALLY need to do to embrace your femininity, attract quality men, and n...
Jan 26, 2022•18 min
If you’re a high achieving woman who wants to attract a masculine man without shrinking or feeling unworthy, this is for you! First, I want you to know and understand that masculine & feminine energy exists in both sexes, so being a feminine woman is already within you. Right now, you just feel disconnected from it. So If you want to stop feeling disconnected and reignite your high value feminine energy, you must learn to trust and heal your feminine intuition so that you can feel safe letti...
Jan 24, 2022•29 min•Season 5Ep. 1
Missed us? Courtship Code Podcast is BACK! And we've got some super exciting news for the New Year. Here's everything you can look forward to and so much more.
Jan 21, 2022•18 min
We’ve been flooded with lots of questions about the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program, especially wanting to know, what’s inside? So here’s all the program details . We want you to have as much information as you need to feel good about moving your love life forward and finally taking a step in a new direction. Captivating Courtship Code walks you through EXACTLY how to break relationship patterns and relationship anxiety, create a custom match game plan, and attract compatible c...
Dec 23, 2021•37 min
Do you run the other way or feel super anxious when it's time to take action in your love life? If you can relate, listen to Sumaya share her story of going from avoiding and anxious with relationships to getting engaged in less than a year. This quick episode comes from our Case Study Tuesdays every Tuesday on Instagram. Enrollment is Closing 12/23/21 Apply Now www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Checkout more case studies on Instagram (click the buttons tabs) www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivati...
Dec 21, 2021•10 min•Season 4Ep. 61
You’ve been trying to do this love thing for quite some time, and all of the almost-kinda relationships just haven’t been as fulfilling as you may have hoped. When you’ve been in a loop of hot/cold relationships, non-committed connections, or spending more time thinking about relationships than actually having relationships. The fear of wasting all of your primary love years feeling clueless and repeating the same experiences…can really make you want to give up or question the vision of love and...
Dec 15, 2021•17 min
In this special episode of The Courtship Code podcast, we have a discussion with a Captivating Courtship Code alumni who shares her experience with coaching, and why joining The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program was so much more than learning how to get a man. Instead, Tamara shares how coaching gave her the opportunity to rediscover herself. When we first met Tamara, she booked a call to learn more about her relationship patterns and quickly decided to join The Captivating Courtship C...
Dec 13, 2021•48 min•Season 4Ep. 59
If you could avoid this courtship pitfalls and attract a loving relationship sooner, would you? Everyday at Captivating Courtship we work with smart, successful, powerhouse women who are ready to meet the love of their life. They’re done with feeling relationship anxiety and uncertain about how to attract the right man, and even though they may have some relationship fears, they’re committed to being committed. However, there are also some common mistakes many successful women make with love and...
Dec 10, 2021•24 min•Season 4Ep. 58
Have you ever built a relationship with a man who appears to be exactly the kind of man who would be a perfect fit for you, and he just won’t commit? You two have a connection. Maybe even common education or ambitions...so the relationship SHOULD work, right? He seems really invested, values your intelligence and communication, yet, he just won’t move the relationship forward? Next thing you know he’s in a new relationship or married to a woman who appears to be “easier,” and now you’re wonderin...
Dec 06, 2021•18 min•Season 4Ep. 57
What does it mean to manifest your relationship goals and does it really work? One special part of making your relationship goals come to life is spirituality and energetics of love and attraction. Knowing how to trust your intuition and align with the right partner and relationship for you makes courtship more enjoyable and speeds up the process of getting your prayers answered and meeting your relationship goals. That’s what manifestation is all about. When you tie spirituality, energetics, an...
Nov 29, 2021•20 min•Season 4Ep. 56
If you’re like many ambitious, high achieving women you probably struggle with your feminine energy and feeling fully emotionally connected. This can appear as being slightly emotionally unavailable, uncertain about how you truly feel when engaging with men, or a fear around being vulnerable, seen and heard. While this disconnect may have helped you zero in on your analytical side and accomplish many great things, it’s hindered your love connections and personal relationships as well. Today’s ep...
Nov 22, 2021•16 min•Season 4Ep. 55
When you’re a woman who’s been holding onto a non-committal or emotionally unavailable man, you can feel like you’re in a hopeless cycle of attracting the wrong kinds of men and relationships with no possibility of having the type of relationship you actually desire. Especially when you feel addicted to the man and the pain of breaking away seems like too much to bear. And you don’t want any man, you want the one you’re in love with. Yet, deep down inside you know ending this situationship is th...
Nov 15, 2021•21 min•Season 4Ep. 54
When you’re a woman who’s never seen a happy healthy relationship, lack a circle of girlfriends who are happy with their love lives, or simply feel clueless about what steps to make or how to attract the right man for you dating & courtship can feel extremely stressful and cause you to overthink your way into feeling discouraged. Clarity is what stops your relationship anxiety and repeat experiences, so you can have a clear way forward to attract the right men for you in less time. So today,...
Nov 08, 2021•20 min•Season 4Ep. 53
If you’re a woman who’s ready to set the new year on fire and finally take steps to commit to being committed, this podcast series is for you. For the rest of the year we’re focusing on Relationship goals, what they are and how to make them come to life. So grab a pen and paper, and let’s get serious about your dream relationship. On today’s episode, we discuss 6 shifts you can make in the new year to create the love life you desire, and actually hit your relationship goals. After you’re done, h...
Nov 01, 2021•44 min•Season 4Ep. 55
When you’re communicating with a man do you lean more on intimacy or commands in order to get what you want? For some women, who aren’t avoiders, manipulation, demands, and over-explaining is their go-to tool to make a man hear their point of view. Only this way of communicating typically backfires and causes him to go cold, pull away, or place walls around his heart. Instead, what if you mastered the art of making him felt by embodying your feminine energy? This could drastically change your ex...
Oct 25, 2021•23 min•Season 4Ep. 52
Are you ready to meet more men in less time? In this special segment of the Courtship Code Podcast, we discuss a match game plan hack to help you increase your pool of options so you can get clear and intentional about meeting your Mr. Right, and attracting your dream relationship sooner. So often single women wait and avoid taking the best steps with dating and courtship, and only believe simply praying for the husband they desire will be enough. Faith is nothing without work. You must open you...
Oct 18, 2021•20 min•Season 4Ep. 51
If you’re ready to become a queen of courtship this is the episode for you. You opportunity to enroll in the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program during our Captivating Month, ends tonight. Have you been curious about what happens when you decide to captivate courtship and finally create your match game plan? What about the path to success and the promise we make to our coaching community on their actual transformation? If so, in this episode you’ll learn all the details you need to make ...
Oct 14, 2021•34 min•Season 4Ep. 50
It’s time to have a real conversation about getting the relationship you actually want. Too often, women settle for relationships they don’t desire because deep down inside they don’t believe they can actually have it. They operate on love survival mode, and allow themselves to create stories that are rooted in a lack of trust, fear, disbelief, and clarity that keeps them safe and unhappy, despite desiring better. This only sets you up for failure and keeps you unhappy in your love life way long...
Oct 11, 2021•41 min
Many women underestimate the power and value of their feminine energy, and exactly how special you are as womb carriers. You have the magic to move mountains, if you learn to work with your body and stop fighting against it. On today's episode, womb health specialist, coach and doula, Odessa Thornhill dives deep into the energy and power women hold to manifest major change, generational trauma, and happiness by learning to connect with and heal their bodies. Follow @cultivateyourownwellness on I...
Oct 06, 2021•47 min•Season 4Ep. 49
Are you feeling clueless about how to navigate courtship and attracting compatible men and wondering if your mother would've given you more insight on how to date & court for commitment you would be in a better place in your love life? This is a common concern many women face when it comes to their love life, and feeling stuck and confused about why they're so unsupported when it comes to meeting their Mr. Right. On today's episode we're chatting about 3 Painful Lessons Your Mother Didn't Te...
Oct 04, 2021•43 min•Season 4Ep. 48
One common complaint many smart, successful, go-getting women have is that they’re attracting emotionally unavailable men. And if you can relate, there may be something you’re doing that’s causing you to commonly attract this kind of man, over and over again. Here’s the thing, you can change this if you make this one shift in how you engage with men. Want to know what that shift is? DOORS ARE OPEN TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Follow Zara on Inst...
Sep 28, 2021•36 min•Season 4Ep. 47
Did you know cuffing season is a real thing? All humans desire connection and companionship and around this time of the year you may start feeling the itch to meet your Mr. Right. That’s a good thing! That means it’s time to get your head in the dating & courtship game and learn the mindsets of a Captivating Queen so you can get cuffed this fall and winter. Ready to learn more about how pre-kicking off cuffing season? DOORS ARE OPEN TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING www.captivatin...
Sep 21, 2021•52 min•Season 4Ep. 46
Do you find yourself making the same relationship mistakes and attracting the same kinds of men and feeling clueless about what to do about it? If you’ve been in a loop of painful experiences and a frustrating past with men, it’s time to make the commitment to do something different. But sometimes doing something different can feel heavy and you may feel clueless where to start. If you’re ready to break up with your type and start attracting better quality men, faster, then you need to tune into...
Sep 13, 2021•44 min•Season 4Ep. 45
No woman wants to feel unlovable or undesirable. If you’re currently feeling like love just doesn’t live in your home anymore, or maybe even never at all, you need to know you can absolutely have more love and less pain in your love life if you’re intentional and take the steps I’m going to share with you today. What if you could know exactly what to do to increase the amount of love in your life and decrease the pain and rejection you tend to feel? There are shortcuts to make this happen and it...
Sep 06, 2021•39 min•Season 4Ep. 44
Rejection and heartbreak is tough and can really leave major wounds on a woman’s heart and stop her from ever wanting to explore dating & courtship again, or cause her to feel so stuck on not repeating the past that she ends up continuously repeating the past. But what if you could truly heartbreak proof your love life so you don’t have to worry about unnecessary tears and frustration during courtship and can easily navigate courtship with confidence...without prematurely, anxiously attachin...
Aug 30, 2021•32 min•Season 4Ep. 43
