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breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex

Trina Leckiewww.breakupboost.com
Honest and logical breakup and relationship advice… with a sprinkle of bluntness. Whether you’re stuck in a toxic loop, settling for crumbs, or still texting someone who clearly doesn’t care, Trina’s here to snap you out of it - with real talk and practical tools to get your heart and head in check. This isn’t your feel-sorry-for-yourself podcast; it’s your tough-love guide to peace, self-respect, and relationships actually worth your time. Learn how to set boundaries that stick, rebuild your confidence (no begging allowed), and spot red flags from a mile away. Whether you’re drowning in drama or celebrating your freedom, breakup BOOST gives you the realness and clarity - with humor and plenty of sass. Grab your copy of "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon. This book will shift your mindset, rebuild your confidence, and set you up for a fresh start. Before you know it, you’ll be wondering, "What was I thinking?!" For breakup & relationship coaching, visit breakupBOOST.com. Follow on TikTok @breakupBOOST. Subscribe on YouTube "breakup BOOST."
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#327: The MOST Important Thing for a Successful Relationship

This is something you learn as you age... with more life experience and wisdom under your belt! Curious as to what I'm talking about? Well, listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help to Get Over Your Ex ASAP or for Your Relationship Problems: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Ca...

Mar 14, 20247 min

#326: Women Who Say “I Date to Marry” on First Dates or on Dating Apps

Wanting to get married one day isn't the problem. How are you actually handling this when dating and seeking the person TO marry though? Are you putting it all out there right from the jump? I explain all of this in detail and why you need to pull back the reins on that approach ASAP! Listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/b...

Mar 09, 202413 min

#325: Relationship Wake-Up Call: Ya Know What’s Cool??

It's time for a wake-up call. Maybe you're settling, maybe you've lost sight of what's important, maybe you've totally slacked off, or maybe you feel as though you've lost yourself. In my opinion, there is ZERO point in being in a relationship if it's not adding to your life in a positive way and if you aren't contributing to it in a positive way. Let's go over WHAT'S COOL about being in a relationship and toss everything that doesn't fit these core elements in the trash. No recycling. No revisi...

Mar 06, 202415 min

Call Trina on the 24/7 Breakup & Relationship HOTLINE! *10 FREE Minutes*

TO GET MORE INFO ABOUT THE HOTLINE & TO REGISTER ONLINE IF YOU ARE A FIRST TIME CALLER, please visit my website HERE : https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost/ (USA & Canada / Both Men & Women Welcome) If you are NOT a first time caller, well, lucky you, cause you already know the drill ;) I can't wait to connect with you! -Trina *First time callers get 10 FREE minutes*...

Feb 27, 202414 min

#324: "13 Things I’ll NEVER Do Again in Relationships" Promise to Yourself

So, guys... I put a nice little list together of 13 things I want YOU to promise YOURSELF that you will not do again when it comes to future dating situations and relationships. So, get your suit of armour on and let's get started because you'll become unbreakable if you stick to this... Listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.co...

Feb 25, 202413 min

#323: Banking on Potential in Dating

Have you ever banked on potential in a dating situation? Or maybe you're doing that right now and kind of having an internal battle over it. In this episode, I talk about what banking on potential is and why I advise against it... Listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help to Get Over Your Ex ASAP or f...

Feb 17, 20248 min

#322: The Relatability of Being Cheated On. (Let Me Read Your Mind.)

If you've ever been cheated on, first... I'm sorry you had to go through that. Second... you're REALLY going to be able to relate to this. And if you're going through this awfulness right now, hopefully it will make you not feel so alone. I find relatability always helps me in my healing, and I hope it has the same effect on you. xo -Trina Listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz ...

Feb 05, 202411 min

#321: People Pleasing? Ah, Hell No.

Are you a people pleaser? Or maybe you don't want to admit it. Maybe you're in denial. Maybe you comfort yourself by telling yourself you're not a people pleaser ... and instead, it's being a "great person." Whatever the case may be, I've got a lot to say on the topic and why you need to get off this path. You'll be MUCH better off, more confident, more at peace with yourself... not to mention, more appealing to quality people you may be interested in dating. Listen to THIS episode now... and ch...

Feb 02, 20249 min

#320: The “ROAD ROLLER” (A Lesson in Disrespect)

It's time we honed in on disrespect. Disrespect comes in many forms and is usually ill-mannered and malicious. So, why are so many people tolerating disrespect from people they're dating??!! In this episode I am going to plant a seed for you so that next time you are are faced with disrespect, you'll hopefully think back to this episode and hold yourself more accountable in terms of what you allow to continue. Listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your...

Jan 24, 20245 min

#319: My Buffalo Chicken Snack Wrap / Relationship Analogy

Are you familiar with McDonald's Buffalo Chicken Snack Wrap? (And no, this has nothing to do with sponsorship lol.) Somehow I have found a way to turn this fast food item into a lesson on relationships. Gotta get the creative juices flowing sometimes, ya know what I'm sayin? I think you're gonna like it... and get a laugh in too! Listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support th...

Jan 17, 202411 min

#318: Douchebag of the Day Series: “The Bait & Switch”

Storytime is here again, so get your snacks and soda. If YOU have a submission for the "Douchebag of the Day Series" ... email it to trina@breakupboost.com and you might just hear it on an upcoming episode! Listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.co...

Jan 14, 202419 min

#317: What The Hell Does “Do The Work” Even Mean?!

We always hear "Do the work!" but no one really breaks down what that means. Does it just mean to go to the gym? Eat healthier? Self-care? Go to church? lol WHAT DOES IT MEAN??? Let me break it down to ya from my perspective. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching...

Jan 07, 202415 min

#316: Theme for 2024 to Ensure You Take Accountability Is... (drum roll...)

Wow... 2024 is HERE. Instead of "resolutions" that come and go... let's focus on a theme that leads to a new mindset, new habits... which then evolves into a way of life. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Break...

Jan 01, 202411 min

#315: 3 Sentences to NOT Text the Person Who Dumped You (+ more texting no-no's)

Some of you will listen to this episode and think, "I wish I heard this BEFORE I texted my ex!!!" Here's the thing... you can't turn back time, so don't beat yourself up over it. Instead, make better choices going forward. Remember, experience leads to wisdom. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help...

Dec 28, 202310 min

#314: Douchebag of the Day Series: "Love" Story from an Insta-Shopper

Get some popcorn, a mojito, a glass of wine, or a hot chocolate and get cozy! It's storytime! Wait til ya hear this one... Do YOU have a story for the "Douchebag of the Day" Series? If so, email to trina@breakupboost.com and you might just hear it on an upcoming episode. Listen now... then check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1...

Dec 21, 202313 min

#313: The MOST Common Day of the Year for Breakups...

Curious what the most common day / time of year for breakups is? Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boo...

Dec 11, 202310 min

#312: Villainizing Your Ex, But Not Cutting Them Off?!

Some of you are not going to like this episode... but the people who won't like it are the ones who are actually doing what I'm talking about... so if it hits a nerve, that's a sign it's time for you to take ownership and make some changes. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or...

Nov 30, 20239 min

#311: 13 Thoughts About Compliments (Giving & Receiving)

An episode on compliments has been on my list for a while... so here we are... Listen to this episode now... then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-t...

Nov 28, 202316 min

#310: Should You Follow Your Head or Your Heart? (Dating Advice)

The battle of the head and the heart. Why can't they just co-sign on everything, right?! Wouldn't that make life so much easier?! But then it wouldn't be as interesting. So, there's that. Listen to this episode now... then check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina d...

Nov 23, 20237 min

#308: When They Don't Have Your Back in a Relationship

When someone doesn't have your back in a relationship, it feels so disappointing and empty. It takes the oomph right out of the picture and changes the dynamic. Never be so desperate for company and companionship that you settle for people who don't have your back. It's a non-negotiable! Listen to this episode now... then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee....

Nov 16, 20236 min

#307: Why The Term “Cuffing Season” Makes Me CRINGE

Have you ever heard of "cuffing season"? Well, if you're like me, you're not a fan of it or what it represents. Listen now for ALL of my thoughts on this. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz THANK YOU to today's sponsor: COZY EARTH . Use promo code BOOST for a whopping 35% OFF site wide! They have the most amazing luxury bedding, pajama sets, loungewear... and so much more! https://cozyearth.com/ Suppor...

Nov 13, 202312 min

#306: 20 Red Flags You May Be Getting “Slow Dumped” & How to Handle It

Have you ever heard of "slow dumping"? You may have gone through this and not realized that's what it was. In this episode, I cover 20 signs that this may be transpiring in your current or future relationship... as well as how to address it and how to move forward. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More...

Nov 09, 202324 min

#305: MAJOR REALITY CHECK: “We’ve Been Trying to Make it Work” (Toxic Relationship Advice)

As you know, I’m not one to sugar-coat… and this episode is FAR from sugar-coating. If you're quick to run from the truth or get offended when it comes to relationship stuff, this isn’t the episode for you... BUT... if you're ready to start being honest with yourself and want to start feeling more in control of where you're headed, take a listen. This message can change your life for the better if you're ready to accept it. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE:...

Nov 06, 202323 min

#304: 9 Reasons to Start Your Day with a Positive Affirmation!

Kicking off your day with an affirmation can have an incredible impact on your mindset and headspace... whether you're going through a breakup, or on any regular day. I encourage you to get into the habit of incorporating them into your daily routine... then watch how your thoughts and mood begin to shift and become more consistently positive. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2E...

Nov 02, 20238 min

#303: SARAH CENTRELLA: From Ex Husband’s Affair TO Poverty & Rock Bottom TO Manifesting Her DREAM LIFE!!!

Sarah Centrella is my guest today! Sarah is a multi best-selling author, motivational keynote speaker, master life coach, AND manifesting expert! - - - - - I invited Sarah to be on the podcast because she embodies everything that "breakup BOOST" stands for: Self-respect, confidence, empowerment, resiliency, not settling, believing in yourself, taking action to get what you want, and results. That, and she is one of THE most inspirational women on the planet. I love her story and I know you will ...

Oct 30, 202353 min

#302: STOP Oversharing on a First Date… for the Sake of BOTH of You

Oversharing has become a little too trendy. Sure, you want to share with people close to you... but going overboard on a FIRST DATE?! Uh uh. Oversharing on a date is like shooting yourself in the foot... in more ways than one. There's a time and place for everything and self-awareness is key. You need to know your audience and read the room. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHi...

Oct 26, 202311 min

#301: Axing This Breakup Thought: “He’s Going to Be Perfect for the Next One”

It's SO incredibly common for this thought to literally haunt a woman when it comes to breaking up with a guy who is not healthy for her to even be with. It's imperative to start looking at this from another angle and FREE YOURSELF! Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE c...

Oct 23, 20239 min

#300: They Cheated, You Broke Up... BUT You Can’t Stop Thinking About Them

When you discover that you have been cheated on, it feels like the rug has been pulled out from under you. It kind of shuts you down and destabilizes you. That, and you go through a wide range of emotions. I'll give you some perspectives and tips to help shift your mindset in the right direction so you can overcome the heaviness of this at a faster rate. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://a...

Oct 23, 202311 min

#299: TOXIC DUMPING of Relationship Problems Onto Friends & Vice Versa

Do you have a friend who won't stop complaining about their relationship, dating situation, or their ex to the point you can't take it anymore?? Or maybe you're guilty of overdoing this yourself. Either way, you'll definitely be able to relate to this episode, and hopefully have a laugh too. Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffe...

Oct 20, 202318 min

#298: "LISTEN IN" w/ DAN: Incompatibility Breakup & Inspiring Healing Journey (Plus Q's for Me!)

I love connecting with podcast listeners on "LISTEN IN." In this episode, I am joined by Dan who wanted to share his breakup and healing journey to help other listeners who may be able to gain some insight and clarity from his experience. He provides hope and comfort for getting through a breakup and coming out the other side, better than ever! I chime in here and there, of course, plus answer a couple of his questions... one of which has to do with getting back into the dating scene. Good vibes...

Oct 12, 202345 min
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